Can hypnosis make you do something against your will?

Most hypnotist instantly say "No" to this, but I don't, I say "Yes, you can be coerced, tricked, persuaded to do something against your will, by hypnosis or many other methods."

Can you hypnotise a person to do things against their will?


As many people have stated, all hypnosis is self hypnosis. That’s true. All hypnosis IS self hypnosis. Now ask yourself a question… Why do people need a hypnotist in the first place?

Because they are already doing something against their will.


  • They “will” to be slim, but they eat food and avoid the gym.


That’s acting against their will. The truth is, people have very weak wills. If they didn’t then “will power” would be enough to elicit any positive change.

This is what gets me….

“Will power” is a conscious power. It’s really not that strong.

All hypnotists agree that the subconscious mind kinda works like a computer. It runs programs without critique. It runs good programs (positive habits) and bad programs (negative habits, addictions, etc)

When we have a battle of the subconscious belief and the conscious desire, the subconscious belief always wins. Which is why most diets fail until you can convince your subconscious mind to agree with you that being slim is better for you than being fat.

When you have a problem that you want to change, most therapists will tell you that your subconscious mind is causing the problem because it has a false belief. A belief that was probably put their by accident when you were a child. Maybe you overhead your mother saying “Money is the root of all evil” and that suggestion planted a seed in your subconscious mind. Now, as an adult, you find it hard to make money because your subconscious mind doesn’t want you to be evil.

So, we hypnotise the client and we replace this false belief with a positive one and they start making money.

This is the way most things work with hypnosis. We shut down the critical factor, and then replace the false belief that is causing the problem with a new belief that will correct it.

Let’s rewind a second…


A person is doing something against their will. They are doing something they don’t want to do. They are sabotaging their own success.

Why?

Because they overheard their mother say “Money is the root of all evil” about 40 years ago when they were mesmerised by some cartoons on telly.

So a mother can accidentally cause a person to do something against their will but a trained hypnotist can’t? I don’t think so. A trained hypnotist wouldn’t and shouldn't but most certainly could.
When most people are asked this question they say stuff like “If a hypnotist was to put you into trance and ask you to kill your mother you’d snap out of it and refuse”

But would a hypnotist do that? Even an evil one? No, of course not. But they could trick you by being clever.

I read a book once that suggested that if you were to say…

“You’re playing cowboys and Indians, your mother is the big chief Indian and you’re the cowboy. Go on, shoot her with your toy gun! Bang Bang!”


Then a person would have already committed the crime before they even realise what’s actually going on. The real gun would feel and look like a toy to them, and the entire scenario would play out like a child’s game.

Would it really happen? I don’t know, but I believe it would.

During a confidence routine a hypnotist once said to a client “You’re so confident you could do anything, you could even rob a bank!”

For weeks after the session the client couldn’t shake this idea of robbing a bank. Then he did. He followed though on the suggestion and actually committed the crime. Was that against his will? Probably.

Look at some of the experiments done by Derren Brown, where he tricked people into holding up a security van at gun point, or where he tricked a person into shooting Stephen Fry. Those two experiments raise some very interesting questions.

As do con men in the street that use confusing language patterns (that you’ll find in many hypnotic inductions) which overloads your conscious mind and then tricks you into giving up your wallet and phone. Derren brown also showed this too. Is it against a persons will to just hand over their wallet in the street to a total stranger?

Yes.

When people do this there is no force, no gun, no threat, just very clever language, which any experienced hypnotist would very easily be able to recognise.
Now let’s talk about non hypnotic persuasion to force a person to do something against their will.
Ever felt buyers remorse? That’s because a salesman forced you to do something you didn’t want to do. You bought something against your will.


  • What about peer group pressure?
  • Trying to fit in or impress somebody.
  • Trying to look cool because you want to be accepted.
  • Religious leaders
  • Cults
  • Army officers.


We have people that are willing to kill themselves for “the cause”.

You might say that this isn’t hypnosis, but it is. They were not born with a desire to strap on a bomb and run into a crowd of people as it explodes. Things that they were told created a belief system that has resulted in this action being something that they will now do.

Could a hypnotist have installed a set of beliefs in a person that matched those exact beliefs that could lead to a person becoming a suicide bomber? Yes. Because if it’s already happening without hypnosis, then you can bet that with hypnosis it’d be even easier!

When people ask the question “Can you be forced to do things against your will by hypnosis” I think what they are really asking is “Can a hypnotist force you to do things against your will” That’s not the same question.

I don’t know a single hypnotist that doesn’t also use NLP. As well as many other very powerful persuasion techniques. When you combine those techniques together they are very powerful.
I’ve been a hypnotist since 1992, back in the days when I used to mess around with stage hypnosis after work when I was 18 and foolish I told a friend that he was stuck to the floor and if anybody said diarrhoea then he’d instantly get diarrhoea and need the toilet. We all laughed as he grabbed his buttocks with a panic stricken look on his face, desperately trying to unstick his feet to get to the loo. I added the suggestion that he’d be release when I clapped my hands, which I did…. after about 30 seconds.

He ran to the toilet, but didn’t make it. He crapped himself, and also all over the changing room floor on the way to the toilet. It was a mess, and he was extremely embarrassed. I’m pretty sure it wasn’t his will to shit his own pants.

Hypnotists seem desperate to insist that you are in full control and that you can resist any suggestion you are given etc. etc. but they didn’t manage to resist the accidental suggestion that created the problem they need hypnosis to fix in the first place? Hmmm…. that just doesn’t add up.

Two very interesting books on this subject are 



  • “Open to Suggestion, The uses and abuses of hypnosis by Robert Temple”
  • “Mind Control Hypnosis by Dantalion Jones (Dave Barron)”

If you really think that a hypnotist can’t make a person do something against their will then you should read both of these.

If you’d like to learn hypnosis, then you can learn for free with my online video course. But I don’t teach you how to use it for evil. So if you came here looking for that kind of stuff my course won’t help you. But go here if you want to check it out. My students seem to like it a lot.

I was almost going to say that maybe we have something built in, like a fail-safe that would stop us from doing anything really drastic. But no, we don’t. People have willingly committed suicide because they are part of a cult. So no, we really haven’t got a fail safe at all. We have varying levels of suggestibility, so what works for one might not work for another, but as for our “will” to resist a hypnotic suggestion? If our “will” was that strong then we simply wouldn’t need hypnotists at all.

The one thing that I hope people take away from this answer is that the stuff that you are already doing that is against your will is stuff that you are doing because a hypnotic suggestion put a false belief in your subconscious mind. Maybe that suggestion was an accident. Maybe it was the results of a lot of money being spent on a media campaign or some decent sales training. But whatever it was, it works exactly the same way that a hypnotist does, and a hypnotist could have put it there too.

A little off topic, but NLP can do some pretty dark things too, check out Little Albert and the experiments on anchoring fear. They are fascinating, and it’s a shame that his parents withdrew him from the experiment when they did!

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What's a sure-fire, easy-peasy body language trick that means someone likes me?

Body language is a huge and very fascinating topic. When you read a person you really need to take many things into account. So be sure to read my other blog posts about body language and learn those later, when you're not feeling so lazy.



For now though... you asked for a quickie, so here goes.

I have one question... 


Are they pointing their knee at you?


Pretty easy right.


  • Yes = They probably like you
  • No = They probably don't


Now move to a new position.

Wait for a bit.

Did they change position too? So that their knee is pointing at you again?



  • Yes = I think you're in there mate!
  • No = Never mind. Plenty more fish in the sea. 


OK.... Now for some important things. 


This knee point... you move... they move... knee point... thing is a much better test in a group of people. If it's just you and them then they will more than likely move to face you no matter what they feel. So wait until you're in a bit of a group.

Also, it's better in you're not the one that's currently got the attention of the group. If you're talking, and and they're all giving you their attention a knee point isn't so revealing.

The best test is to be in a group of people that are chatting, while you kinda just sit back. If a person is pointing their knee at you, casually move to a different place in the room, wait for a bit and see if they shift their position so their knee is pointing at you again. If they do, that's a very good sign.

But it could be coincidence. Not very likely, But it could be,

So move again.

Wait.

Knee point?

Kaching!


Does hypnosis for weight loss work?


The most effective (and probably only effective) way to lose weight is get your subconscious mind to believe that you should be (or already are) slim.



Without exception, all diets works for some people but not for others. When a diet works, it's nothing to do with the actual diet itself. If it was we'd see a lot more consistency. They work because while the person was on the diet they did something that changed their subconscious beliefs about weight.

As soon as your subconscious beliefs about weight change to support the idea of being slim you will become slim. It doesn't matter if you're on a diet or not when this happens. You will become slim.

If you do happen to be on a diet when your subconscious beliefs change, you'll naturally assume that the diet caused the weight loss. And you'll tell all your fat mates that you've finally found a diet that works!

If they all try the diet it'll work for some of them but not for others. If you've got a particularly suggestible friend that really values what you think it'll probably work for them because your recommendation is as powerful as a hypnotic suggestion in their mind.

Let's consider a few things...



  • All diets work for some people but not others. 
  • Some people are always fat, even if they constantly diet.
  • Some people are always skinny, even though they eat like pigs.


The diet is not the factor.

Here's a lie that most people believe...

LIE: You are what you eat. 


That's NOT true.

Here's the actual truth that very few people realise...

TRUTH: You are what you THINK*


*(At a subconscious level!)

The size of your body is determined by your subconscious belief. If (at a subconscious level) you believe the you should be fat (even if you consciously want to be thin) then you will be fat. And no diet makes any difference.

If you are extremely strict with your diet and you do loads of excersise you will lose weight. But it'll be one hell of a struggle and the moment you stop working your ass off you'll put it all back on again... and probably some more too.

Losing weight will always feel like a battle. And it is, it's a battle against your subconscious mind.

When you go into battle against your subconscious mind this is what happens. 


Your goal = Be thin
It's goal = Be fat

Your strategy...


  • Eat boring food. 
  • Don't eat food you really want.
  • Do gruelling exercise that you hate
  • Constantly feel hungry
  • Make very little progress


It's strategy...


  • Cause you to find healthy food bland and boring
  • Cause you to crave all the food that will make you fat
  • Make you hate exercise
  • Cause you to feel hungry all of the time
  • Slow your metabolism down to a snails pace so you make practically no progress


The thing is, your subconscious mind does all of this without even breaking a sweat. But your strategy is practically killing you.

If your subconscious mind wants you to be thin then it does other stuff instead.

Stuff like....


  • Causes you to actually enjoy the taste of healthy food, but greasy take-away? No thanks!
  • Makes you enjoy exercise so much that it feels like taking drugs!
  • Speeds up your metabolism so that simply being alive is enough to shed those pounds!


If you doubt any of this, read each point again and see if you can think of any people that are already like this. Damn right you can! There are millions of people that are just like this.

They're all slim too. Effortlessly.

So...

Hypnosis for weight loss


Hypnosis is the best tool that we have for telling the subconscious mind to stop wanting us to be fat and to start wanting us to be thin.

It's easy, painless, fast, effective... and free!

OK, it's not always free. But this time it is! I'm a hypnotist and I have a weight loss audio called "Effortless Weight Loss" and, tadaaaa... here it is:



A lot of people tell you that hypnosis doesn't work.

That's because they try it once and expect instant change. That's not gonna do anything.

In order to create lasting change at a subconscious level you really need to do something every day for 21 days. That's how long it takes to lay down a new subconscious belief that will support a total change in your life.

After a few days, the change starts to happen. And your subconscious mind totally shits itself. It really hates change. So it does everything that it can to make you stop. It tries to convince you it's not working. It tells you it's a waste of time, it makes you feel bored. It really pulls out all of the stops.

But you're the boss! 

So keep going. Every day for 21 days.

Do that and you'll see astonishing results.

Now play the hypnosis session and start losing weight effortlessly, quickly... before your subconscious mind hears us... it's always listening!!!













What's the best way to control your body language?

Even if people don't know anything at all about body language, subconsciously they will pick up the messages from your body language and get a "feeling" about you based on that. But there are ways that you can control your non-verbal communication, and they are much simpler than you might expect!



What doesn't work - But most people do


If you try to control your body language it will come across as fake. And the feeling they'll get about you will not be a good one.

Trying to control your body language consciously is incredibly difficult as there are so many things going on at once, and it's impossible for you to control them all. Something will leak out and you'll have conflicting non-verbal communication that screams "I'm not being genuine!"

Consciously, you're very very unlikely to be able to control all of your non-verbal communication in such a way that will appear genuine.

The trick to correct body language


There is a trick that you can use that makes things much simpler.

All you need to do is decide on the non-verbal message that you want to communicate and then tell yourself (convincingly) that this is exactly what you are.

So, as an example, if you work in sales, you'll want to appear genuine, caring, trustworthy, honest and reliable. So tell yourself that you are all of these things. Tell yourself (and believe it) that you really care about the person you are talking with and you have their very best interests at heart.

In fact, that's what you should naturally feel as that's what you should be doing! You really shouldn't be trying to manipulate people while hiding behind body language that says "I'm one of the good guys!". That's not nice.

But i've worked on sales, and I know what it can be like. You have goals to meet, you're a bit nervous, you're worried that you might not get the sale and your pay-check will suffer. All of that stuff can happen even if you are very genuinely acting in the very best interests of your client.

They'll pick up from your body language that something isn't right and they'll likely lose trust in you.

To overcome this you need to constantly keep telling yourself that you are helping the person. Keep reaffirming this over and over and genuinely feel really good that you are able to help this person.

When you do this, and you don't try to control your body language is any way at all, your natural body language will also communicate this message and you'll come across as genuine.

You don't want to only do this in sales, do it all of the time.



Here are a few tips on things you should say to yourself in order to help display the correct body language for the situation



  • When you're chatting with friends say to yourself, "I like this person, I'm very interested in what they are saying and I respect their views."
  • When you're approaching somebody to ask them out on a date say to yourself, "I'm very interested to get to know this person, they are friendly and I'm genuinely curious to know them better."
  • When you don't want an officer to write you a ticket say to yourself, "I respect this officers authority and I am genuinely sorry that I made a mistake"
  • When you are asking for a flight upgrade say, "This person is busy and I respect their time, I really appreciate them helping me."
Obviously, to get out of a ticket or to get a flight upgrade you need to say the right thing too, but saying the right thing while displaying the wrong body language is not going to get you anywhere. 

In a future post I'll be talking about subtle language patterns that you can use to get what you want in any situation. But think about your body language as the foundation upon which you can layer those language patterns. Without that foundation they're not going to do you much good at all. 






What are some easy tricks to lose weight?

There are loads of weight loss tricks that will help you to lose weight, and some that won't!  Some of them even make you fatter! So let's talk about those ones first, so you know what to avoid.



1. Starving yourself


Less calories = less weight, right?

Not necessarily.

If you don't give your body the food that it needs it can go into survival mode pretty quickly. This is when your body thinks that there is a shortage of food (why else wouldn't you be eating, right?)

The next time that you eat, your body will store more of the food you consume as fat. So if there's another shortage it has some reserves. It will also slow down your metabolism, which means it'll be much harder for you to lose weight in future.

So does starving yourself make you lose weight?

Short term, yes. Long term... hell no!

So, if you've got an important event coming up that you need to be super slim for, and you don't really care if you're a big fat pork pie for the rest of your life, then this weight loss trick is for you!

2. Doing a cleanse


This one is pretty much exactly the same as starving yourself, with the same results.

You are denying your body of nutrients that it needs. When you start eating normally again it'll hang on to that food for a lot longer. Result... it becomes much harder to lose weight in future.

Ok... let's have a quick aside here before number 3

All these kind of diets do the same thing.

But, they also ALL will make you lose weight in the (very) short term. People see the results of the short term and think "Hey! I lost weight!" So they sing the praises of whatever diet they just did. And the people selling that diet get a shed load of very impressive testimonials with before and after shots.

But that's never the full story!!!!

If the before and after shots also included a "Couple of weeks later, after going back to eating normally" then it'd tell a completely different story.

So steer clear of anything that might make your body think "Oh no! There's a shortage of food! But no panic, I can handle this!"

3. Cutting out fat


Your body NEEDS fat to function correctly. Not all fats are bad. Some of them are essential. If you cut them out you will make yourself seriously ill.

I have two friends that cut fat from their diet for years. Now they both have early onset osteoporosis. I'm not a doctor. I'm not saying that cutting fat is definitely the cause of their illness, but your body needs fat. When you deny it something that it needs for a long time there are consequences.

Now let's have 3 tricks that do work


Trick 1 - Eat, stop, focus... and put your knife and fork down!


You body is pretty slow at letting your brain know that you're full. But your taste buds are pretty quick to say, "Another mouthful of that delicious nosh please!"

So here's a trick that definitely works

E A T   S L O W L Y

V   E   R   Y     S   L   O   W   L   Y   !

When you eat slowly, your brain gets the "OK we're full now, stop eating!" signal form your belly in time for you to not shovel another 10 forkfuls down your gullet.

So you stop, and you feel satisfied.

If you eat quickly, then you can get through a LOT of food between the time that your belly says "STOP!" and your mind hears "STOP!"

When you do that you collapse onto the sofa with the top couple of buttons of your jeans undone, rubbing your aching, ready to burst belly.

All that time you spent preparing the food (how long does it take to order a pizza) is now wasted because you feel like crap.

The answer, SLOW DOWN.

Some tricks that will help you to slow down:

1. Put your knife and fork down between mouthfuls
2. Chat a lot with your eating buddies
3. Become extremely aware of the food in your mouth, chew it slowly, saver every tastes, enjoy it fully, then swallow it

Trick 2 - Drink water


This one works soooo well.

Most of us eat crap food. And we are pretty much always dehydrated.

Often, your body will crave hydration and it'll make you feel hungry so that you eat food because it needs the water that's in the food.

If, ever time that you feel hungry, you drink a full glass of water, then wait for 5 minutes you'll find that the hunger often completely subsides.

Having hydrated yourself, your body no longer needs to trick you into eating food.

Get into the habit of drinking a full glass of water every time that you are hungry and you'll be amazed at how much less you eat.

Of course, sometimes you genuinely will need food, so if you're still hungry 5 mins after your water, grab something to eat (but eat it slowly, otherwise you'll very likely eat too much!)

Trick 3 - The most POWERFUL trick of all! 


I can not state how powerful this is. But it really doesn't have anything to do with eating, or dieting or any of that stuff.

Let's call all of that stuff flowers in the garden. What we're going to do is burrow underground to the roots that support the flowers!

The trick is very simply to visualise yourself the way you want to be.

That's it!

Just vividly see yourself as the size, shape and weight that you desire to be. Visiaulise it every day, all day! Make it as real as possible. See your perfect body as you wake up, and see your perfect body as you fall asleep.

This works better than ANYTHING.

Here's why it works...

Your subconscious mind decides what food you like and what food you don't like. It decides if you enjoy exercise or hate it. It decides if you'll have a fast metabolism or a slow one. It turns the food you eat into bones, muscles, flesh, fat and poo.

If your subconscious mind thinks you should be fat it does all of this in a way that will cause you to be fat. And no diet is ever going to change that.

But if it thinks you should be thin it will do all of this in a way that will make you thin.

So it will speed up your metabolism, make you enjoy the taste of healthy foods over unhealthy ones and probably cause you to actually enjoy jogging at 5am before you go to work.

Think about it.

Some people eat like pigs and are always super skinny. Other people walk past a donut shop and instantly balloon an extra 20 pounds of muffin-top.

Why does that happen?

We say, "Oh but this skinny person has a fast metabolism" etc.

But why do they have a fast metabolism?

Because their subconscious mind gave them one because it thinks that they should be thin. You are whatever your subconscious mind thinks you should be. Everybody is whatever their subconscious mind thinks they should be. No exceptions. No cheating. No diet tricks that are gonna change a damn thing.

If you want to be thin, you first have to change what your subconscious mind wants. And you do that by constantly feeding it an image of your ideal body.

Trust me this works. Better than any diet. Period.

The very best way to do this is to use hypnosis to re-program your subconscious mind so that it starts to see you as a thin person. Once that's done it's only a matter of time (and not much time!) your physical body will very soon start to change to match the "blueprint-body" image in your subconscious mind.

I've made a hypnotic recording (called "Effortless Weight Loss") that does this for you, just sit back, relax and listen. For it to work you must listen to it everyday for about 3 weeks. That's how long it takes to transform your subconscious mind.

Free weight loss hypnosis audio...





Another cool little trick you can pull on your subconscious mind is to make it think that you've had a Gastric Band fitted. That's pretty amazing, and it works. Click here to check it out, and read some feedback from previous "patients" and see the science and psychology behind why it works!

Until your subconscious mind thinks you should be thin no diet will ever work long term. As soon as it thinks you should be thin, you'll be thin. And stuffing yourself with pizza ain't gonna change a thing. You'll be one of those lucky skinny bleeders that you've envied all your life. But ONLY if you stick with it until your subconscious mind is on your side.

Now put that donut down.










How can I tell if a person likes me from eye contact?


Eye contact reveals a huge amount about how a person feels towards you. But you need to take other things into consideration too.

I'm going to cover a few basics of eye contact on this post. I'll add more posts on general body language signs to look out for later, so be sure to take a look at those too.

The 3 triangles


When a person looks at you their eyes rarely stay perfectly fixated in one place. They tend to move around in a triangular pattern.

There are three common triangles that people make.

Eye-Contact - How to determine if a person likes you!


Triangle 1 - Eye, Eye, Forehead


The first is to move between your eyes and your forehead. If a person is doing this then they probably don't think of you romantically at all. It's a very "business" way of making eye contact and is rarely done by a person that's in to you.

Triangle 2 - Eye, Eye, Mouth


The second pattern is to shift between your eyes and your mouth. If a person is doing this then it's much more likely they they like you than pattern 1. But it's not 100%

During this pattern, pay close attention to the amount of time they rest at each position. If they spend a lot of time looking at your mouth it increases the chances that they like you.

Sometimes they'll only fleetingly move back up to your eyes, spending most of the conversation watching your mouth.

There is a caveat here, people that suffer (even very very mildly) with Aspergers will tend to look at your mouth a lot more than your eyes. But there are plenty of other body language cues that will tell you whether or not they like you.



Triangle 3 - Eye, Eye, Body


The third triangle involves shifting from your eyes to your body. This shift could be to your chest, crotch or down to your feet. This is a strong indicator that they are into you. They like what they are looking at and they want to take it all in.

Now for another caveat...

However they are looking at you pay close attention to their facial expression. If they have a look of disgust, with their nostrils flared and slightly drawing their head back from you, then they are not into you. They might be using triangle number 3 while thinking, "OMG this person is so gross, just look at their hideous outfit too!".

This form of eye contact isn't checking you out, it's judging you.

Similar, if they maintain contact with your eyes but have the disgust posture then they probably just don't like the subject that you're talking about. So don't take that personally.

The extended gaze


If a person holds eye contact with you for what seems like a little bit longer than would be natural, they probably like you.

The (Second) Glance


Once somebody has noticed you, if they like what they see then it's very hard to resist a second glance. This can range from looking back after you've walked past them in the street or constantly glancing at somebody in a busy cafe.

Sometimes, you will notice that a person re-positions themselves so they can more easily enjoy more glances. Lining you up with whatever they are focusing on (or pretending to focus on) so they can more easily sneak a peak at you.

A very common "trick" that many guys do is to casually look to the position where you will be. For example, if you're walking, they'll look to the spot that you're about to enter so when you get there they can check you out. Usually they try to cover this with a yawn, but if you know what you're looking for it's always obviously.

They are trying to give the impression that something has caught their eye, like an interesting piece of architecture that they need to look out, and then you walk into shot and it's a "total accident" that you're right in their line of sight.

A really great way to determine whether a person likes you or not is to change position or move completely and see how they react. (This is also a great test for other body language clues that I will talk about in other posts!)

How long do they look at you?


A really strong indication of attraction is the amount of time that they spend looking at you. If you're in a group of people and you notice that somebody is looking at you a lot then they probably like you. Of course, if you're the one speaking they are obviously going to be looking at you, but you should be able to tell what is normal and what is excessive.

Again, just like the second glance, this is the person liking what they see, and wanting to see it more. It's actually very hard for them to control this impulse. So if they like you, they'll look at you a lot.

The look away, or not


There are 3 kinds of reactions that people tend to give when they notice that you've noticed that they are looking at you.

One of them is totally natural. It feels natural. It's not creepy nor embarrassing for you or them. They notice that you notice and just smile in a friendly way. That doesn't mean they like you, but they might.

The other 2 methods are a much stronger indication that a person is in to you.

1. Looking away

If they quickly look away then they very probably like you. This is perhaps one of the strongest signs that they are into you.

It happens because they know that they were checking you out. They like what they see so they want to keep looking at you. But when you noticed they feel as though you have caught them looking. Often as they look away they will blush a little.

This one is a sure fire sign that they are into you, but they maybe feel a little intimidated and shy.

2. The creepy smile

This one is very easily recognisable. They notice you've noticed them looking and they slowly nod with a creepy smile or even a quick pout. This means they are into you, and they think you should feel lucky about it! They like you, but they like themselves more, so you should feel lucky that they like you!

Or... it could mean, "You should be so lucky." If their ego is so inflated that they think it was you checking them out.

Next we have pupil dilation


If you look at something that you like, your pupils will dilate. Again, it's the mind thinking I like what I'm looking at, I want to see more of it. So your pupils open up to let more of it in!

Of course, pupils also dilate for other reasons too, like when it gets dark. So you need to take this into consideration.

How do they look at other people?


Something that can reveal a great deal is the way that a person looks at you compared with other people. As an example, imagine that you with a group of your friends and suddenly a famous person that you all idolise joins your group. I'm sure you can easily imagine the instant shift in the way that everybody acts. Notice (in your imaginary scene) the way your friends look at this famous person compared with the way they were all looking at each other moments earlier. The difference should be obvious.

If you notice that a person tends to act and look at you differently to the way they act and look at others then it's a sign that they like you.

Our imaginary encounter with a celeb is a very exaggerated form of this but I'm sure it gives you an idea of things to look out for.

Weirdly, even if a person isn't that in to you, if they notice that you are looking at them, they'll tend to pay you a lot more attention. Often they'll start to like you even if they've never thought of you that way before, simply because they think that you like them. Or if they really don't like you, they'll probably like you even less. Either way their emotions towards you become stringer because they have noticed that you are noticing them!


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Can hypnosis make you do something against your will?

Most hypnotist instantly say "No" to this, but I don't, I say "Yes, you can be coerced, tricked, persuaded to do somethin...